I've bussed to Philadelphia and DC, trained to Wilmington (Delaware, baby), planed to San Francisco. And I've spent a number of weekends with my butt stuck to my office chair, pounding away at the worky work. But this weekend was a pure summer delight, at home in NYC. My horrible case of horribleness thankfully settled on Thursday, so I ventured out to an "at-home" with some of my favorite colleagues for a summer associate event (after last year's master of ceremonies duties, I've laid low this year, venturing out only to trivia night and staying out until 2:30 am teaching the youngsters how to moonwalk on the dance floor. I half-heartedly wish I was joking, but I have no shame. And I am been inundated with lunch invitations since . . . my moves, they cannot be denied.) What else? We ran, I wedding showered, Harry Pottered and then today, went out to Governor's Island with some friends to ride bikes and picnic. It was absurdly idyllic, particularly, as DK says, the very notion of a picnic is enough to send me into paroxysms of joy. Is there any greater delight than packing a picnic basket (er, backpack)? Some cut up plums, some cherries. A little prosciutto, a hunk of cranberry stilton. A baguette, naturalment. Some cashews, a watermelon/feta/mint concoction, a chickpea/lentil salad. And a enormous bar of chocolate to pass around. DK accused me of trying to live out some "French Alpine fantasy." (I suppose he would prefer it if I packed sensible turkey sandwiches on wheat, she sniffed). Needless to say, we grazed for many hours and looked out on the water and waved to the statue of liberty while this very weird art installation piece occasionally bleated out quasi-Celtic sounds in her honor (not kidding).
And finally, San Francisco. I have never been so stressed out for a work thing before and am just happy to have survived with my pride only somewhat battered and bruised. The city itself was so gorgeous and I teared up no less then 5 times in three days remembering old days. It was the first city DK and I lived in together, and threw all caution and reason to the wind by immediately moving into our first apartment in Cow Hollow. I remembered taking the bus to work in my new little suit, and the games of chase DK and I played in our place that ended in tickle fights, and punishing runs through the Presidio in the fog. Ah love, let us be true to one another! (Wow, a little nostalgia and suddenly I'm quoting Dover Beach? Perhaps the LEAST sentimental poem ever written?). Anyway, I also got to have dinner with an old dear friend and meet her babies for the first time. Mandy was a first year associate when I was just starting out as a paralegal in a big NY-based firm in the M&A department -- and as fresh out of college English/art history major barely even knew what the SEC was. But she taught me that working hard and having a huge amount of fun did not have to be mutually exclusive -- one night before a closing, we deliriously danced our butts off to disco music in her office to wake ourselves up. I still do shit like that, but Mandy showed me the way to maintaining yourself and your sense of fun when I wasn't at all sure about this corporate life. I miss her is what I'm saying. I wrote DK that we have to move back immediately, but New York has a way of laying on her charms as soon as such fickle feelings appear. Maybe someday.